In family law, Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) refers to methods of resolving disputes without going to court. These approaches can be more cost-effective, faster, and less confrontational than court proceedings so they are worth considering if suitable for your situation.

Benefits of ADR

Confidentiality: Unlike court proceedings, ADR is private.

Flexibility: More control over the process and schedule.

Preserving Relationships: Less adversarial, helping maintain relationships, especially important in parenting matters.

Tailored Solutions: Can create more personalized and creative solutions than a court might impose.

Considerations

Nature of Dispute: ADR might not be suitable for all cases, especially where there is a significant power imbalance or history of abuse.

Willingness to Cooperate: ADR requires both parties to be willing to work together.

Legal Advice: It’s advisable to seek legal advice even when engaging in ADR to understand your rights and the implications of any agreements.

1. Mediation

Description: A neutral mediator helps both parties reach a mutually acceptable agreement.

Cost: Generally, less expensive than court proceedings, with costs varying depending on the mediator’s fees and the length of mediation.

Pros: Can be quicker and less stressful than court. Encourages cooperation and communication.

Cons: Not legally binding unless formalised in a court order. May not be suitable in cases involving imbalance of power or abuse.

When to Use: Best for couples willing to work together to resolve disputes.

2. Collaborative Law

Description: Each party hires a specially trained collaborative lawyer, and all parties agree to resolve disputes outside of court.

Cost: Involves lawyers’ fees but can be less costly than full court proceedings.

Pros: Focuses on mutually beneficial solutions. Legal advice is integrated into the process.

Cons: If the process breaks down, parties must hire new lawyers for court proceedings.

When to Use: Suitable for those who want legal support but wish to avoid court.

3. Arbitration

Description: An independent arbitrator makes decisions on disputed matters, which are legally binding.

Cost: Includes arbitrator’s fees and potentially lawyers’ fees, but usually quicker and cheaper than court.

Pros: More control over the process and timing. Decisions are binding and can be made on specific issues.

Cons: Less flexibility once an arbitrator is appointed. Costs can be significant.

When to Use: Good for resolving specific issues or when privacy is a concern.